Monday, February 8, 2010

Mt boyfriend keeps asking me the same question over and over again i give him my answer that is true its??

he has written every phone number i have ever written down and called them up, heeven accuses me of being in denial. and he the other day got all my phone numbers out on his flat floor and said i had coded them. i am going to leave him as i have had enough its the same every time we meet, he keeps saying i need help he goes through all my old sim cards from over five yrs ago.is this an illness that maybe he could get treatment for as when hes not like this hes lovely. but now i am just getting very angry when he even mentions a phone but would trying to get him help be me just hitting my jead against a wall . please tell me if i seem to have the problem hes so convinced i have or is there a name for gis behaviour please help thanks from i shouldMt boyfriend keeps asking me the same question over and over again i give him my answer that is true its??
Yes, there are several names for this- but lets start with controlling individual. I wouldn't just leave, I'd run to do it. This is the sort of thing that eventually leads women to find themselves trapped in abusive relationships. Today he snoops the phone numbers, calls them and checks up behind you. Next thing, he'll be telling you who to call and who not to call. It just tends to snowball from there on. This is the first step in isolating you. So get out now, while the getting is good. Don't argue the point, there's nothing to negotiate and no changing him. Mt boyfriend keeps asking me the same question over and over again i give him my answer that is true its??
There is nothing wrong with you ...its him,he needs help, he is a control freak and very insecure.


The fact you get angry in your relationship because he drives you mental is enough to break it off, you deserve better.
I think that the most important thing in a relationship is trust, and if he can't trust you then the relationship won't go very far...





I think you should get away from this guy while you can, he sounds like he needs help.






Offer to go with him to a doctor to have this checked outm but before you do just suggest to him which behaviours you consider to not be normal.
Agreed, dump him. Life is too short to try and make relationships work with people who are too dysfunctional to handle a relationship.
have some babies.
hes psychotic x_X and has very low self esteem.. i think u should try to break away from him as hard as it sounds
ya there is a name for this it is abusive behavior. It will get worse. Get out before he harms you. He may decide you are not telling the truth and he may hurt you. He is trying to make himself better by saying you are crazy and let me tell you you will become crazy if you stay you will lose yourself. you will loose all self because you are constantly trying to protect yourself. I have been there get out to not walk run to the nearest exit. If you can not leave you need to go to a womens shelter and get information If he will not let you go find a way to get them to get you out this is serious.
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