Your relationship is beyond suffering...it's dead. Quit getting mad at the women he cheats with, that is a waste of time. HE cheated on you, they didn't. Dump him and get on with the life you deserve. You can find a happy, trusting relationship, but not while your stuck with this loser. Have fun with your life.Ok folks heres my question Ive been with the same guy for 7 years he put his profile on true .?
Sounds to me that you are already cutting ties.. once the trust is truely completely gone, its gone... and you will always be questioning and never actually be secure. Unless you and he can sit and talk and you find a way to trust him again and completely let go of your insecurities. I dont think that you should go and do the same to him without ending the relationship first, all that is going to do is make him mad and u might get some satisfaction from paying him back or whatever but i think that you would feel more empowered by doing better for yourself. 7 years is a long time to just give it up and move on, but you need to talk to him about it... cause if he isnt willing to fix it then it wont fix itself.
Kick him to the curb, no trust no relationship.
Are you kidding? Have you got self esteem issues? No self-respecting female would put up with being disrespected. Dump this guy like a hot potato. He sounds worthless.
I understand your pain, except I am married to ';that'; guy. Cheating can have many different reasons some is simply bordum, the internet thing, although can be a great tool also puts other women in your home which makes life even more complicated. You have to decide what is best for you... If you want him to be with you then go down this path.
I am working on me and although I have a very good life I have some very difficult personality traits and working on those is what I focus on .. if it works out .. it does .. you will know what is best for you and it will hit you like a ton of bricks!
Find you a female roomate and let him go and do what he wants to do!
BAD NEWS SWEETIE. HE CANT BE TRUSTED.
if you think flipping some stupid script is gonna be on him you are not ready for any relationship. the only thing you'd be lipping is yourself the bird,dur to lack of respect for yourself. you say he cheated once BUT you caught him so what are you hi smums or overseer? is this the position you want to be in? cut him loose since little things bother you. sounds like someone wants to be the next woman on earth who thinks she can control and dictate to a man how things are to be done. you probably use the words';
supposed to'; to this man a lot also. get a nother life ,move on.
CUT TIES. You have been with him and he's looking for someone else, enough said. Get out of that relationship quickly
He is obviously incapable of being monogamous and you so far have been incapable of letting him go his own way. Why would you want to force him to be faithful? Why would you want to have to constantly wonder who he has been with and how many other sites he has put a profile on? You should both acknowledge that you no longer have a relationship based in loyalty and fidelty. It has become a game of him trying to see how much he can get away with without being caught or kicked out and you trying to catch him at everything he might be doing to be unfaithful.
Tell him it's over. Tell him to seek out all the anal he wants. Point out to him that if he gets involved in a gay relationship, he could have anal all the time. Don't bother cheating on him. It makes you no better than him. When you are done with him, seek out whoever you wish to spend your time with. Don't bring the suspicion and mistrust of this relationship into the next one, or you will destroy your next relationship also.
dont even sweat him just let go of him hes a jerk to begin with no reason to cheat he is a low life and will get his so just move onto to someone who is going to LOVE and RESPECT you!
get rid of this guy for your own mental and physical health. He is not going to stay in a monogamous relationship no matter how great of a person you are. This is his problem and he needs to fix it. The best way for you to be okay is to leave his sorry tail because he will never have anyone as good as you. Move on girl, get you a better man!
o.k. so if you don't trust him, then why are you with him? I would say it is time for a change, find a new man and toss this one to the curb.
Okay... he's considering his opinion... maybe you should too... call it quits... end that relationship. its not healthy.
Drop that zero and get you a hero.
His profile elsewhere shows he's ready to move on...why don't you go ahead and do the same?
Y'all are not a good match anymore, if you ever were.
Ditch him.
he wants out and you should too.
Start living a life you enjoy. This seems like a headache you are tired of and don't need anymore.
Get rid of this guy ASAP!
He can't be trusted and all you'll end up with is heart ache!
Well I tell ya what. If the trust isnt there you dont have anything. Usualy it's just a mind thing for everyone it seems like. A lot of people say that cant trust their partner, but then they never do anything wrong, and during that whole time they worried about nothing. But in your case.. he has cheated before. If that was me, I would of left then. I trust each and everyone one of my friends.. I definately going to trust my GF if I had one. Real love doesnt have feelings like those involved. I hear its very pleasant, and peaceful. And each partner should KNOW they wouldnt cheat. If you honestly cant trust him.. then you just have to go by what you feel. I can agree with you, on how your feeling about the situation. Its extremely hard to earn trust back.. the only way is to forgive and hope things change. If you dont think you see a change happening.. then I would probably concentrate more time on people that you can trust ;-)
Avoid fighting back with that other girl.. she isnt worth your time. It will probably just make her want to justify herself, and sleep with your bf again.. just to piss you off! Since you gave bad words to her, Im sure she doesnt have good thoughts about you. Do you think this is the case? I know it feels good to trash her, but there is a chance it could make things worse. And avoiding all the evil is just keeping it real.
If you cant trust your BF thats tough... but imagine how good it would be if you acually could? :-)
He is a cheater...plain and simple. The profile is definately one of those CLUES...he probably has many out there. Make him wear a condom!!!
he's a piece of ****. cut off his nuts when he's sleeping and make him eat them
get counseling, or end relationship, i would be out the door so fast if i ever created a profile on a dating site. there is no need for it. im sorry this is happening to you. find someone who you can trust.
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